We're back for another Friday Feature. This week we have the wonderful opportunity to hear from one of our more "experienced" Mommys, shall we say. Grab a pen and take some notes about what makes it all worth while!
Tell us about yourself
Right off the bat I need to clarify that I am a Mommy but my two
sons are over 6 feet tall and I have two daughters-in-law and four
beautiful grandchildren, so yes that makes me a little different (well a
lot different) than the young business Mommies of today, but I have
been creating for years so I do have an understanding of what it is like
trying to manage it all.
I am retired from the corporate world and married to the most
supportive husband ever and believe me, I test that daily. He is a
“new” husband of just over five years so I am still “breaking him in”
as far as what is involved with selling my creations, but he is always
there for me. A few months back he said “I wish I could think of
something to make that went along with what you make”, so I suggested
doll beds as I make doll clothes. He set out and made “a lot” of doll
beds so this Spring we will be doing a two day outside show featuring
his items along with mine. I am very excited for him even though I had
to do the painting and bedding part of his beds. I feel it is time to
pay him back for all the time and support he has given me with him
having the joy of seeing his things sell. I can hardly wait!
Tell us about your shop. What do you sell?
I sew, so give me some fabric and I will sew something! No don’t
give me some fabric…I am a fabric-holic already! My etsy shop “Lil
Missy and Bubba” is new as just opened in February but I have been on
eBay for several years now. I made the decision when starting on etsy
to just sell appliquéd baby bibs but that has already changed and I am
adding some baby toys. I still, after all these years, have the hardest
time sticking to just one item. I love to sew and there are so many
wonderful fabrics and so many things one can make, so I just go along
with my heart and make what makes me happy . Is that a good thing? I
don’t know. Do I question why I jump around? Yes I do, but I know I am
not a factory so I am not good at mass producing anything and I want to
always enjoy what I’m doing so I feel if I stick to sewing, at least my
items are in the same ballpark. Do my shop and store always look
cohesive? I don’t know but is that perhaps something that only
sellers think about? Do customers ever think “I’m not buying something
here as this shop is not cohesive”? I doubt it. I also do several craft
fairs a year.
How did you come up with the name?
For many years I created under the name “From the Heart”. While true
then, and still true today, I wanted a new name. Well let’s face, I
“needed” a new name. I had pretty much settled into baby girl clothes so
Lil’ Missy was my husband’s choice of names. He even wanted the
apostrophe. What a guy, right? So it was Lil’ Missy for a while, but
then while doing shows, we would be asked “why are there no cute items
for boys?’ so a change in items and a change in names was necessary and
Lil Missy and Bubba was born. The apostrophe was dropped,. Hard to see
it go, but it had issues.
When did you start creating? Why?
Its my Grandmother’s fault! She sewed, quilted, crocheted,
embroidered, gardened, canned, butchered chickens, did laundry in a
wringer washer , hung it outside to dry and yes ironed! I spent my days
with her and my Grandfather when I was little so they taught me to do
all the wonderful things they did. My Grandmother had the patience of
Job and worked endless hours with me on the crocheting thing. I still
have many items she made including a large crocheted peacock bedspread. I
also still have her treadle sewing machine which has the most wonderful
gathering foot ever made but I no longer use it as my youngest son was
my bobbin winding person and he does not live here. I always made things
for myself and gifts for others but then one day way back when everyone
had geese in their blue and mauve kitchens, I started making geese and
just couldn’t stop. That lead to many other decorating type items and I
had to do something with them! Of course there was no internet then, as
hard as that is to believe, but fortunately we had a couple of little
consignment stores. I took some things there and they sold and I
haven’t stop making things since.
What goals do you have for your shop? Is it a hobby, major source of income or somewhere in between?
My goal would certainly be different if I were still that young Mommy
at home with little ones. I would do whatever I could do to stay in
business. I’d never put my family second, but I’d keep going even during
slow times because of that magical thing of the internet. The whole
world is looking to buy something wonderful and handmade, not just
customers in a tiny local consignment store (even though they can be a
source of income). My goal for us now is to supplement our retirement
income and to have something to do so we don’t sit around in our
rocking chairs watching TV…well we do that anyway but at least not all
day!
Does you family play a role in your business?
I have already mentioned my very supportive husband, bless his heart,
but my children are still very supportive of what I do. They say I need
a web page. I wish they’d make it for me.
Both of my sons are very creative, a family curse I guess, but I love seeing what they make and create.
Hang on ladies for those days when those kiddos help you with so
many parts of what you are doing, even if it is just loading up things
for a show. My youngest son was always willing to help at a craft
fair. He was my cashier and a great help with setting up my tables both
physically and aesthetically. We still laugh at some funny things he
helped with around high school age. Again I will mention….there was no
internet so I had to buy supplies at a couple of little local stores or
if I wanted something different I had to order from catalogs which were
mostly black and white. Yes, I’m that old! My patience with the waiting
was not good so many times I had to use my own creativeness, especially
with patterns. I worked for a couple of days one time trying to make
crows. My son came home from school and let me know they looked like
bowling pins. Sounds cruel but he was so right. He helped me redesign
them and after being dressed up in sunflower dresses and bib overhauls
complete with corn seed they sold extremely well. With a pair of
gingerbread people, he suggested I needed to tea stain them. I didn’t do
that particular pair and at my next show a lady said “I’d buy these in a
second if they were stained.”. I looked and my son was under the table
laughing. They didn’t sell that day so stained they became and yes they
sold. I bet his mother taught him a lot of what he knows!…so believe me
they are watching and learning so many things from you! Teach them the
love of creating!
How do you keep everything organized? Do you have a workspace?
Organized? What’s that? Actually I am pretty organized but I’m one
of those people who likes order and did I mention….I do NOT have kids at
home. Sometimes I still can’t believe it when I reach for my sewing
scissors and they are still there….as a matter of fact I have become
over-ran with scissors. I think all those missing ones from years past
are reappearing!…the socks never did though!
I am so fortunate, as someone who owned our home before us built a
room on top of the garage. My sewing studio now! I just repainted it
recently in turquoise and red. Love it! I have double south and west
windows so lots of sunshine and I can look out over the world! It does
have one issue. The stairs are homemade and spiral with a big step up.
We ponder often how many more years I can climb them. But still going
strong!
What has been the most difficult aspect of running your own business?
Well now don’t laugh…but once upon a time, I thought you just listed
something and it sold quickly, and if it didn’t no one was ever going
to buy it. I have learned there is a buyer for every item…well that is
if you can afford to re-list it twenty times! I suppose there are some
things that may never sell…but it is very rare so re-list and one
morning when you get up, there it is ….sold in your inbox!
What has been the most rewarding?
Oh so many things over the years have been rewarding and you young
Mommies will have those memories someday also. Do what you love and love
that you can do it. I love that I can sew. Thanks Grandma!…and now I
am able to make clothes for a Special Needs Granddaughter and last July I
was most honored to make a baptism gown for my newest granddaughter. I
guess I could do those things without having a business but out there in
this world are lots of other little ones enjoying the things I have
made! When I hear back that “my gift was a hit at the baby shower and
the Mommy loved it”….It warms my heart!…and to know that some special
little one is eating their first birthday cake with a bib on that I
made, I am overjoyed!
Do you have any tips for other moms with a small/home business?
Tips! Treat yourself like you’d treat your best friend. Be
encouraging and understand you can only do so much . Take a break when
you need to. Not everything needs done today! If you and the kids are
still in your jammies when your husband gets home…tell him you are
having a pajama party and ask him to join in.
Utilize your crock pot…seriously…Nothing say I have it all together like
the smell of supper cooking!…but mainly Don’t Quit! There are so many
wonderful years ahead of you and it gets easier…well in 15 to 20
years….but it gets easier. Always remember there is NO ONE who can do
what a determined Mommy can!
Thanks for sharing your wisdom, Rebecca!
If you would like to see more, you can find LilMissyandBubba at the following sites.
www.etsy.com/LilMissyandBubba
www.facebook.com/LilMissyandBubba
stores.ebay.com/lilmissyandbubba
pinterest.com/rebromick
Thanks for joining us!
